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#1 Postby madcat » Mon Nov 07, 2005 3:05 pm

My boyfriend has been “vegetarian” for about a year and a half. It all started after seeing a screening of the witness. After the movie he said “how can I eat meat now”. I was really excited, and everything was great for a while. Then he started complaining. First about how inconvenient it was to be vegetarian. I didn’t get that, I was always jealous about how many more options he had then me. Then he started saying that it was making him run down and weak. I tried to help make sure he was getting a balanced diet, and really it seemed like he was eating ok. The funny thing is a year ago we were both working out a lot. He was really starting to bulk up, but then he lost motivation. I think because it was interfering with his social life. Later he said it was wearing him down “because he was vegetarian”. These comments bugged the hell out of me. I don’t want him going around saying those kinds of things and giving vegetarians a bad rap.
So honestly I wasn’t too up set when he started eating fish again around six months ago. I thought it wouldn’t make him feel any better and he would see that wasn’t the problem. It didn’t seem to fix anything but he kept on eating it. Just recently it took another turn. One of his favorite foods used to be carne asada and he said he wanted to have it again “one last time before he really committed to this thing”. But that wasn’t the end of it, on Friday he went with his friend to a birthday party. He people having it didn’t know he was coming and didn’t have much food for him to eat. He said he kept eating and eating but wasn’t getting full, so evenly he ate some pork that they had. I don’t get it, and I don’t like it, but most of all I just wish he would stop calling himself a vegetarian!

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#2 Postby Richard » Mon Nov 07, 2005 3:17 pm

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#3 Postby jonathan » Mon Nov 07, 2005 3:20 pm

hey, im sorry to here about that madcat :(

it does sound though that you bf is making any excuse he can not to be veggie. which is doubly sad as veggie is so so so so easy.

veganism is obviously a very large part of who you are, and the way that your bf is acting it seems that he doesnt understand this.

maybe you should consider addressing the issues you have with this; after all it must be very upsetting to know he is eating animals again. my partner, kathryn is vegan and it makes life much easier as we are on the same wavelength.

best of luck with it :)

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#4 Postby compassionategirl » Mon Nov 07, 2005 3:25 pm

I firmly believe that the true measure of a man's (or woman's) heart can be seen in his treatment of animals.

Nuf' said.

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#5 Postby tylerm » Mon Nov 07, 2005 5:39 pm

tell him to stop being such a shithead. Someone known to be 'vegetarian' going around eating meat when convenient is not a good rolemodel for vegetarianism / veganism.

My girlfriend Larissa is also vegan, and it is so nice that we can enjoy the same foods together and have special vegan feasts once in a while. We have been together about 7 years, and we went vegan together about 5 or 6 years ago.

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#6 Postby compassionategirl » Mon Nov 07, 2005 5:41 pm

[quote="tylerm] We have been together about 7 years, and we went vegan together about 5 or 6 years ago.[/quote]

That's awesome Tyler. :D 8)

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#7 Postby madcat » Mon Nov 07, 2005 5:50 pm

Who decided first? What made you decide?

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#8 Postby tylerm » Mon Nov 07, 2005 10:08 pm

It was a mutual decision. We had both been vegetarian since around 16 years old, and were finally a point where we were ready to go the extra step and go vegan. I went vegan for political and ethical reasons, and the longer I have been vegan the more compassionate I am towards every living thing. I would never even kill a bug now. Same goes for my girlfriend. She is a veterinary assistant and does so much for animals, she really goes the extra mile and is the most selfless person I know.

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#9 Postby compassionategirl » Mon Nov 07, 2005 10:13 pm

tylerm wrote: the longer I have been vegan the more compassionate I am towards every living thing. I would never even kill a bug now.


same exactly here.

YOur girlfriend sounds awesome by the way.

I love it when two compassionate vegans find true love. Must be heaven on earth. 8)

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#10 Postby tylerm » Mon Nov 07, 2005 10:18 pm

compassionategirl wrote:I love it when two compassionate vegans find true love. Must be heaven on earth. 8)


yeah sure... heaven :roll: no, just kidding, she is pretty rad (and hot to boot :wink: )

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#11 Postby Cristian » Tue Nov 08, 2005 6:55 am

Sorry to hear that madcat...I don't understand how a vegan or a vegetarian can actually eat meat or fish again. It doesn't make sense. Try to persuade him, maybe it's just a temporary slip-up.
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#12 Postby Vamprilla » Tue Nov 08, 2005 3:30 pm

compassionategirl wrote:I firmly believe that the true measure of a man's (or woman's) heart can be seen in his treatment of animals.

Nuf' said.


Very true.

I'm sorry that's happening madcat. My "boyfriend" is not vegan or vegitarian, so it's kind of hard to eat when at his house. But I was able to get some food for when I'm there. I'm going to make him watch meet your meat. He's such an animal lover so I can see him going vegitarian, especially after watching that.
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#13 Postby compassionategirl » Tue Nov 08, 2005 5:17 pm

Vamprilla wrote: I'm going to make him watch meet your meat. He's such an animal lover so I can see him going vegitarian, especially after watching that.


I guess you will know just how much of animal lover he is after he watches meet you meat. I hope he does not disappoint you. A lot of people think they are animal lovers -- but when their "love" of animals is tested like that, they fail miserably and continue eating the alleged objects of their affection. :?

If he is a true animal lover, he wouldnt eat animals. I hope he comes through!! :D

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#14 Postby Hero » Tue Nov 08, 2005 11:54 pm

I, myself, could never love someone who didnt understand me or my beleifs.

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#15 Postby compassionategirl » Wed Nov 09, 2005 12:08 am

Hero wrote:I, myself, could never love someone who didnt understand me or my beleifs.


amen to that.


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