I am so friggin OBSESSED with that rude woman who just joined recently. No introduction, just starts jumping into forums and badmouthing people.. And I retaliated. I apologize to the people who had to read that. It's just not like me to sit back and let other people bully me. I was bullied a lot at a young age by people who just have no couth.. Just like that. I used to sit back and ignore it hoping it would go away but it got WORSE. For the sake of my own sanity I just had to stand up and stick up for myself.
I work hard, I don't need to take that shit! Like that song "We're Not Gonna Take It" by Twisted Sister. Well I'm not gonna take it! People like that make me SICK! You know it's good to be confident and believe in yourself, but not if you have to belittle others to feel that way. It's just not right.
Anyways, I'm going to post the conversation we had in private for everyone to see because there are 2 sides to every story. I feel that if I post it up, if anyone wants to see it, they can see for themselves what really happened. I had to think about this a bit because I clearly made an ass out of myself purely out of anger. So here it is:
It started with me sending her this message:
I'm gonna tell you why I was offended by your comments.
First of all, you said I only won the competitions because I have a pretty face. You also said that it looks like I don't even work out. Then you proceeded to tell me my biceps look like "knots". Then you insult me because I was wearing pajamas in one of my photos with cats on them (not fluffy bunnies, sorry).
I'm gonna be brutally honest with you. I think you're a bitch. You come in here, telling everyone how much better your figure is than everybody's and you haven't even posted pics to prove it. I'm PMing you because I don't want to hijack the thread explaining how much of an elitist shitstorm you're causing.
If you want to show everyone how much better you look, then fuckin' show us. Post up some pictures. Put your money where your mouth is.
If you don't like how the judging in an online competition is (which is purely for fun ONLY) then just leave. Nobody will miss you, I promise.
Then I got this:
Yah..well if you cant admit the real reson you won continue with your disillusion
OH..and by the way, I didn't see the fotos of your pygamas it was purely coincidence I made this comment..but it kinda proves my point no?
And I replied with this:
It's just for fun anyways, not a real contest.
What the fuck is your problem? Are you pissed off because you didn't start bulking up at a young age? You going through some kind of midlife crisis? Or are you really just some sadsack fat chick who's jealous of all the 20 somethings on the forum who have actually gotten recognition for their efforts?
Once again.. If you wanna tell people how awesome your superhero physique is, prove it.
Pics or it didn't happen.
Let me explain something to you:
I've been weight training for a few years. Everybody knows it takes time to build muscle density. Also, I don't take supplements. No creatine, L-glutamine, steroids, or even protein isolates. I'm not a bodybuilder. I never claimed to be. Also, I've been a vegetarian since I was 15, vegan since 21. I battled an eating disorder from 2002 to 2008. Several reasons why I'm not a hulking woman bodybuilder.
If you think I shouldn't have won an online figure contest that was for T-shirts than that's your choice. I really don't give a shit what you think. You want me send my T-shirt to you?
And I got this back:
Fuck you you stupid little bitch!
Don't write to me again
When they open up the competitions I'll upload my pictures don't worry.
And that's the whole story.