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I'll just come right out and say it. I fall a bit short when it comes to the male anatomy. It sometimes feels like I'm the only one. Perhaps the reason is becasue of the way I grew up. I've always been very child-like and innocent. I'm still a Virgin, Never been kissed, don't really....well...you know......the thing most people do to relieve sexual desire...Well I don't do it that offten. Pratically never. I feel ackward when I do. Like it's something I shouldn't be doing.

 

Yes I'm talking about the size of my junk okay. Grow up My question is..is this normal? Is there a way to improve veganly/naturally. It doesn't really bother me very much just sometimes I get insecure about it. If you're wondring about the size I once measured it when I was 19. I know I'm sick.

 

Flaccid state: 1.5 inches

Erect: 4.2 Inches

 

Something like that.

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Well ask yourself why so many people talk about it our age? Probably because most people are insecure..

 

Not much to worry about, you can't change your genetics and it doesn't matter. I don't see the point in worrying about something you can't change. As far as masturbation. That instinct is pretty natural and I don't see anything wrong with it. Chimps do it, most males do it, no reason to feel akward about it. If we were still primitive, we'd be fine with having offspring at 13-14, society doesn't allow that, but the instinct will be there regardless.

 

You are definately not the only one, I think a lot of younger people are in that situation which is why they talk about it, they're uncomfortable as well, they just show it differently.

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We are who we are & we're all different & it's a beautiful thang! Be proud of who you are and dont worry too much about other people.

 

And virtually everyone - NOT just men! - masturbates at least sometimes. Why do ya feel that it's awkward for ya?

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Its no biggie(no pun intended). Actually most partners don't care that much and in terms of my female friend(just friends) they always say girth is more important...if they care at all.

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You can't change size of your____ so be happy with what you have got If some girl tells you that it's small then tell her to F off!

 

Jerking is completely natural and normal even when you are old or in a relationship! You catholic or something? Life is too short so chill out and enjoy and practise safe sex.

 

Average erect size is between 5.5 to 6inches. I am above average...what can I say Btw I am married and my wife is very happy with junior's performance.

 

There is nothing you can do to increase it's size so relax. Maybe surgery if it bothers you that much.

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Naw it doesn't really bother me that much I've actually become happy with having it more travel sized. I can imagine an erection in pants with a _ the size of a horse to hurt like hell.

 

LOL and no I'm not Cahcholic( Christian actually but not the insane kind) I guess I feel ackward because of my inexperience and child-like mind.

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Naw it doesn't really bother me that much I've actually become happy with having it more travel sized. I can imagine an erection in pants with a _ the size of a horse to hurt like hell.

 

that's not a problem! if you have a big junk there are many things you can do to avoid that kind of situation, like wearing big pants, or not wearing pants at all... or simply taking off your pants whenever you're in pain... lol ahaha

( just kidding )

 

LOL and no I'm not Cahcholic( Christian actually but not the insane kind) I guess

 

There is half your problem Come to the world of Veggie Atheist and you will feel much better I command you

 

or Vegan Agnostic world!

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I know where you're coming from in terms of masturbation, I sometimes feel uncomfortable doing it, although I don't feel there is anything wrong with it. Perhaps you can either try to just remind yourself that logically it is fine, and try to enjoy it - or failing that, you could train yourself to think of it as just a necessity; which it is really. Once you feel yourself becoming aroused or whatever, masturbate to deal with it whenever there is an appropriate time. Just like hunger, thirst or feeling like you need to go to the toilet, it's another urge that needs to be dealt with, and masturbation is a harmless way to get it out of your system.

 

In terms of length of penis, I don't think there is a healthy / natural way to get it longer, but I don't think it's something you should aim for anyway. Instead, try to become more confident about it, or even better, just don't think about it because it doesn't matter. If someone judges you because of the size of your penis, then you don't need to listen to their opinion on it, because they're unreasonable. And if a partner is unhappy with you due to penis size, then forget them because that's a crap relationship.

 

In any case, 4.2 inches is still very functionable I am sure

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Heres some things to live by with a smaller penis:

 

#1. It will fit in ANY hole!

#2. It doesnt take as long to wash it.

#3. You only need one hand to jerk off and not two.

#4. A woman(or person) will be able to fit the whole thing in their mouth.

#5. It'll make your balls look bigger.

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Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable....life. Everybody has different judgments and nobody sees the world the way you do, so don't think that way. Some people might like your ding a ling and some might laugh. The fact is that everybody has different judgments. Too many people try to become perfect even though that is impossible, so why try? My advice is to let go of all the bullshit that is packed in your head from society and media and let mother nature heal you. Let go, it's as simple as that. Life is too complex to assume what someone wants out of you. Go with the flow. Nature has been here trillions of years. I would rather trust that than my fragile mind. Hope this makes sense bro. peace

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Quit trying to control something that is uncontrollable....life. Everybody has different judgments and nobody sees the world the way you do, so don't think that way. Some people might like your ding a ling and some might laugh. The fact is that everybody has different judgments. Too many people try to become perfect even though that is impossible, so why try? My advice is to let go of all the bullshit that is packed in your head from society and media and let mother nature heal you. Let go, it's as simple as that. Life is too complex to assume what someone wants out of you. Go with the flow. Nature has been here trillions of years. I would rather trust that than my fragile mind. Hope this makes sense bro. peace

 

I think people should try to improve the things about themselves that are important to improve - such as (in my opinion) compassion, empathy, patience, honesty etc. Whereas, the things that don't matter shouldn't be on people's mind, and they shouldn't be insecure about them. But, people disagree about what is important, and I guess that's where the problem is.

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You wrote

Flaccid state: 1.5 inches

Erect: 4.2 Inches

 

That's kind of small but you are in the right place because a Vega nutrition is the perfect soil to start to grow your penis. You look 20 so in your case it will more like to re-boot a computer and continue to grow naturally. You should go at list to a 6 inches in length * 5 inches girth

 

I take this seriously because at this age of electronic porn a lot of young men feel uncomfortable with theirs size. Suffering is suffering; pain is pain even if it's for a inch less in your underware..

 

First you have to double check your measurement: a real measurement is bone pressed. Second you need to take the girth measurement in three points and do an average. Do not measure the head, that will be cheating

That will take care of the girth measurement

 

The third thing is to see the angle of your full erection at the max. Let me explain, it is like a watch, from profile in a mirror check what is the angle of your erection : 11 o clock close to the belly or it could be at 10 or at 9. If you have a high erection you will be a fast grower because you have more fiber to work with at the base of the penis.

 

In case the angle is low, let say 9, it will take more time and discipline.

Another question do you have a girl friend now.

 

I know several ways to enlarge (in length or girth or both) a penis naturally with the help of the right diet and maybe few nutrients and this at any age without spending any money. Ancient eastern knowledge.

 

I don't know is this subject should be private or public. Let me know

 

Best regards

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Just don't worry about it. Most girls I've talked to don't really care about size. In fact, I've had several tell me that those Peter North horse dicks look (are) downright painful, so I wouldn't worry if I were you.

 

Also, don't be so hung up on sex and never having been kissed. I'm a virgin too, and only kissed someone once. There've been plenty of chances, but no one that I really felt right with. Don't throw yourself at whoever comes first just to do it, but also, don't feel ashamed or anything. It's all natural. Don't be ashamed to masturbate. When you feel bad about enjoying yourself in any way that doesn't hurt others, society beat you. Just, absolutely pwn3d.

 

Vegansky, well, you've piqued all our curiosities now, do tell.

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I agree qualities like Love and Compassion are more important then anything else.

 

I know that men can be humiliated at will on the size of theirs penis by women but also by others men . A consideration before I start :

It is easiest for a women to tight her vagina than for us to expend our penis … So that could be an idea? / !

Here you go just for men.

 

The first thing is to check as in my previous message if the measurement where right.

Then check the fat pad. I explain: if you have at the root of the penis a fat pad of one inch,

you are loosing one inch in length right there.

 

The first thing also will be to lose weight for this reason.

The second reason is s we don't really want fat around our waist also fat trap all sort of chemical :

fertilizer, pesticide, dioxin that can imbalance the ratio Testosterone / estrogen and affect our sexualty

 

We live in a world of estrogen. They're in the air, car emissions, detergents, paints, nail polishes,

lotions, soaps, plastics cup and bottle , food and water. Other sources of estrogen chemicals are petroleum

based products, pollutants, pesticides, colorants, herbicides, chlorine, fungicides and plastics.

 

Animal protein and dairies are stuffed with it.

 

So men are under attack, sperm count went down 50% already worldwide and we are losing 2 % a year.

Balls are shrinking and penis are not growing or come with weird defects.

You can find about 91 different chemicals in each of us that where not here 75 ago, so go

Vegan: all organic.

Second thing is to check the testosterone level and estrogen level to see if we have something left to work with.

You can raise the level of testosterone with natural testosterone patch or precursor supplement and

low the estrogen level though vegan nutrition and specific veggies

 

The next step is to clean the pipe. We have to work with a plumbing system

Attach to a sponge and sustain by a piece of muscle all powered by an invisible pump wired to the brain with an electrical circuit.

 

To clean the pipe everything natural (herb, supplements) that you will take if you had a coronary disease.

You need blood and a lot of it down there, right ?

 

You need pressure also so a lot of purified water.

 

That the first step and people think that it was easy to grow a penis!!

 

For the next step the growing part you need the dedication of a body builder and the soul of a gardener.

This was a big e-mail and I don't want to stretch it further

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how tall are you? perhaps your tali wacker is in proportion with rest of your body. there are ways to stretch it out but ive read tht there are losts of risks like deformities and the possibility of not maintaining an erection(which would make it sexually useless no mater how big it is).

as far as masturbation, its not a big deal if you do it once in a while but it does drain your testoserone and lots of vitimin and minerals(vital for body building) and the most of important is loss of spiritual energies,

 

sumone posted it is a safe way to release sexuall tension.. bbut if you have lots of this tension and the only way your fixin it is through chronic dick beatin, you will be draining yourself of vital nutrients and energy(chi/prana)

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You can raise the level of testosterone with natural testosterone patch or precursor supplement and

low the estrogen level though vegan nutrition and specific veggies

 

How exactly can one do this? and with which foods in particular?

 

A supplement of testosterone what kind of effects has in the body generally?

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as far as masturbation, its not a big deal if you do it once in a while but it does drain your testoserone and lots of vitimin and minerals(vital for body building) and the most of important is loss of spiritual energies,

 

I really hope this was said tongue in cheek. Because, seriously, the idea that masturbation is harmful or depletes testosterone has been debunked for decades. Let's not bring back the 1800's.

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I think it depletes you momentarily(say the day of in excess) but in the long run its even better since it gets your body to produce more. I know some really good athletes(sprinters mostly...also its not normally solo) that actually have a routine they use for races.

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