K-oz Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Hi everyone, since it's been three months now, that my now ex-boyfriend has dumped me and I am still feeling horribly down and aweful, I need to change something.He left Germany - including me - behind and apparently moved on, while I am sitting here in my own misery and can't get out of it. This forum means a lot to me and I have found friends here and a place to come to and have fun.But since I don't get around reading posts about him or from him (including pictures), I need to take some time off. It just hurts too much. I have literally cried two months - every day. December was bit better, it was only about every 1.5 days.I need to get over it somethow or I'll be in this miserable state forever and ever. I will miss all of you a great bunch!! ~ K-oz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richard Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Yo, I understand, it's got to be tough. Lots of people have MySpace, you could maybe stay in touch with something like that. Peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bigbwii Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Keep ya head up, although it hurts real bad now, those feelings will pass! Be strong and look after number one....YOURSELF! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
offense74 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 We'll be here when you're ready to come back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JW Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I don't blame you at all for wanting some time away.I hope you find your way back here in the future.Keep strong and keep positive!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_raVen_ Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Koz, I don't want you to go If it hurts too much, then take time away for yourself. Hang on. One thing I used to do when really hurt was just to acknowledge that at some point soon I will not feel this way, because that's a fact even though it doesn't feel that way. Thinking logically right now is super hard, I know, but the truth is you will stop crying and you will be happy and my best guess is, happier. Just keep that in your mind -- you will be over this; and sooner than you think. Hang on, okay? You're one of the sweetest persons here, from what I've read and that you're gorgeous doesnt hurt; you are going to be better and stronger. Just like when you burn those muscles, a few days later, they're harder, bigger and stronger It's super cold and windy here...makes me feel like getting together with you and a bunch of girlfriends and having a slumber party where we can talk, eat, *laugh* and act stupid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crash Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Hang in there K-oz. We'll be here when you're ready to come back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Odidnetne Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I hope you start feeling better soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeganDude Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Hi K-oz,From what I've read in your posts you seem really nice, you'r really pretty, you cook really great looking food(I'm sure it tastes just as good) and you'r a vegan.......I'll be your boyfriend! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veganmadre Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 K-oz, I can't tell you how much I feel for you. I've told everyone I've met from the forum that I think we'd be the bestest of friends - you're progressive, alternative, soul-seeking, passionate, creative, inquisitive and silly. It hurts me to know that you're in pain. While I can't claim to understand how you feel, I do understand loss and how absolutely overwhelming it can be. You always have been a positive and shining part of this forum and I'll miss you terribly! I was thinking of you just yesterday! Honestly! I'm with raven - I want the big girlie slumber party, too. I'll bring the cupcakes, chips and guacamole if you bring the tiramisu!!! You'll be very missed! Take care of yourself - you are soo important! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robert Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 K-oz, We're always here for you. We hope you feel well again soon. You are a strong woman and I know you'll be doing fine again soon. Come back anytime you're ready. A big hug from all of us to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
finbarrio Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Sorry to hear K-oz. You seem so sweet and nice, I'm sure you'll be through your sad times quickly. Hang in there for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pazios2002 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 man I am going to be and to see her go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lelle Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 hope you'll feel better soon! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pelicanAndrew Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I'm really sorry to hear that. My relationship is coming to an end as well. It's definitely tough stuff and some time to yourself will really help. Hope you're feel better soon. Us vegans need to stick together. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 I'm looking foreward to seeing you around again once you feel like your ready to come back. Just make sure you keep training and cooking so your ready to give us feedback on how you've been doing once you come back. Hope to see you soon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K-oz Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 Oh guys,honestly I am so touched of what has been written. You are the best! No doubt about that!This kind of support is so special and it absolutely made my day.I'll read through this thread every day from now on and I bet I'll be fine in no time you are going to be better and stronger. Just like when you burn those muscles, a few days later, they're harder, bigger and stronger That's such a cool comparison It totally rocks! Better and stronger... sounds perfect! ....I'll be your boyfriend! I'll take that as a promise Just make sure you keep training and cooking so your ready to give us feedback on how you've been doing once you come back. You bet! I won't stop training and I'll keep track of it Again: Thanks a bunch for the warm and wonderful posts!Believe me, I want to come back as soon as possible! ~ K-oz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nicole Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 I hope you'll be ready to come back soon! I'll miss you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loveliberate Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 K-oz, I'm sad to read that you'll be gone from the forum for awhile but I hope that you will be back soon - feeling better than ever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpeakLow Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Hey Oz,Long time no talk too. I went through the same thing recently, that is why I have been gone for the past few months. I didn't forget about you, I've just done the same thing. I will miss you greatly, but we'll still stay in touch. If you need anything, lemme know. Love ya,James This will make you smile - Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Last of the Sane Posted February 6, 2007 Share Posted February 6, 2007 Good luck, and I hope to see you here again soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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